Q: Should one only send Mishloah Manot through an emissary? A: Some Poskim derive from the Megilla’s expression: “Mishloah” Manot – which means to send, that it is preferable not to deliver the Mishloah Manot yourself but rather send it through an emissary[1]. Some even maintain that this is the only way to fulfill the Mitzva[2]. However, the custom is to rely on the Poskim … [Read more...]
Megilla Reading for Women
Q: Does one recite a Beracha over reading the Megilla for women, if he has already heard the Megilla himself? A: Although some Poskim worry about reciting a Beracha at a women’s reading, because of the possibility that the Megilla is not being heard properly[1], many Poskim[2] do require the reader to recite the Beracha – as per Minhag Yerushalayim – especially in our days … [Read more...]
Bride and Groom Fasting on Ta’anit Esther
Q: Do a Hattan and Kallah have to fast on Ta’anit Esther during their Sheva Berachot? A: Most Poskim follow the opinion of the Ritva[1] that a Hattan and Kallah are obligated to observe the four fasts commemorating the Hurban, citing the verse[2] which requires us to be mindful of Yerushalayim – particularly during our times of joy[3]. However, in the case of Ta’anit Esther … [Read more...]
Parashat Zachor for Women
Q: Are women obligated to hear Parashat Zachor? A: Some Poskim maintain that women must also hear Parashat Zachor as the Mitzva of Zechirat Amalek is not considered to be time-bound[1], and because the victory over Amalek pertained to women as well. However, the Hinuch reasons that because women are exempt from fighting in battle[2], and the main purpose of reading Zachor is … [Read more...]
Seeing Double: Two Adars in Halacha
How an additional month impacts Yahrzeit or Bar-Mitzvah calculations and more | By Rabbi Moshe Pinhasi Having a double-month twice every seven years (or seven times every nineteen) does not keep things too simple. Just ask summer-camp directors who need to configure the constantly changing Elul/August equation, as well as city synagogues trying to properly prepare for the High … [Read more...]